I want to share a little story with you to show the power of asking, and how the process of asking sets in motion the organic systems within you that enable your subconscious to find the answers in the outside world.

I was having a deep conversation with my Mum because both she and Dad are going through a rough patch, (It is unfortunate with all the knowledge I am able to share with them, especially after their lotto ordeal, they are unwilling to take that extra step and break free form their comfort zone) and I explained that she spends her time merely hoping her way through the day, and gives up on her goals because she concerns herself with the ‘how’. To explain I told her my story of how I got an Ipod.

Recently I decided I wanted an Ipod. I have never owned one but I was increasingly finding myself in need of a tool to store mp3 files, and being the way I am, I simply asked for it. Before I go on, I need to explain that although I may pay for something, I do not like to go out and purchase something when I decide I want it; and the reason is simple…it takes the fun out of it. Most times what I want turns up or I am led to the item, but rarely, if at all do I pay anywhere near top dollar, or a price that one would pay if they simply went out and purchased it. Also, I am always curious and then in awe of how something shows up.

So, after I asked for an Ipod, I simply went about my normal business. Maybe 12 hours later, I was going through some finances and needed to check my credit card statement, and out of curiosity, I decided to look at my rewards points. At this time, I had completely forgotten about my request for an Ipod, however as soon as I clicked through to the rewards section, the very first image I saw (out of about 12 images) was of Ipod shuffles. Then I remembered my request, and thought ‘wow’, this is how I’m getting my Ipod, which I then did, having more than enough points to do so. My mum just sat in awe, not because of the Ipod, but because of the regularity of these sorts of events I share with her.

Another similar story occurred when I needed an image of a shiny dollar coin, and no where could I find one in the house, nor on the internet (which was very surprising). Three days later I was filling up the car and I could see an extremely shiny dollar coin maybe 10 metres away on the mat in front of the sliding doors to the service station. What was amazing were the number of people walking past it and over it, not one of them noticing it, yet there I was filling up and could see it clearly. Naturally, I picked it up, took it home and used it for my image.

I use these small examples (although I don’t see them as small) because I want you to understand the power of thought, and the power of your mind in finding solutions for you. I could just as easily use bigger examples but for many, such examples may only cause a sort of envy of the object or achievement, when what I am trying to explain is the power of the process itself. It doesn’t matter how big the question or desire is, the process is exactly the same, always. (What I will say though, it was this very process that enabled me to find my wife, and she was exactly what I asked for!)

To demonstrate, after I got the Ipod I told my son about the whole episode. He thought for a bit and then asked, ‘Dad, how can I get a credit card and will I be able to get reward points?’ I replied with ‘Son, you’re looking in the wrong direction. It wasn’t the credit card or the reward points that got me that Ipod, it was the process of me asking, my mind answering, and me having belief that the process works.’ And there lies the most important part…having the belief that the process works, and to do this means understanding the organic processes and systems within us all.

So my suggestion is for many, to work on understanding the way our brains work, and work on the belief that there is always a solution to a problem, an answer to a question, a ‘how’ to get something, that doesn’t require you to work out the ‘how’. If you have a desire for something, but you believe it is an achievement beyond you, work on the belief that the world always provides a way, if you just allow your mind to receive it. Examples would be ‘My mind always seeks the answers I need’, or ‘all my desires already exist’, or ‘I receive all solutions, desires, answers that I seek’. Just find a belief statement that flows for you.

If you concern yourself with the ‘how’, what you are effectively doing is stating that you do not believe in the process, and of course, if you do this, your subconscious has to respond by making you closed to opportunities, answers and solutions. It’s just doing its job.

To your success

Dean Whittingham

The complete step by step guide to Reprogramming your Mind for Success

In the world of self help and development, there are two primary schools of thought relating to the creation of desires in our life.

One is that in order to get what you want you must focus on it as often as possible, and at the same time block out any opposing thoughts to your desire.

For instance, if you want to own a nice new house, you should affirm this intention as often as possible using things like pictures, affirmations (i.e. I am living in my dream home now), visualizations, writing down the goal and many other sorts of tools for the sole purpose of bombarding your sub conscious with the new desire.

To make it even more effective you should learn to add emotion to it, thereby creating a more intense realization that you already have it. At the same time any time doubts creep in suggesting that you can not have this desire you need to be aware that the thought is occurring and stop it in its tracks.

However the second school of thought is to make your intention clear to the universe, and then simply let it go. By letting go it means you basically do the opposite to the first school of thought, and that is you do not spend huge amounts of time and energy bombarding your sub conscious with your new desire.

When looking at these two schools of thought there seems to be a contradiction. How can one camp say you need to bombard your sub conscious and the other camp say you should not. The answer lies with one thing and one thing only, and that is your belief that the desire can happen.

This is extremely important because someone who needs to tell themselves something over and over again needs to do this because deep down they simply do not believe it is possible.

Think about it for a second. If you believed that a certain desire, experience, possession etc was very possible in your world, would you need to continuously tell yourself that? The answer is no. Think of it another way; a lot of things are possible in your life but have you achieved them all yet? No, simply because you haven’t had time, but that doesn’t make them impossible to you.

However once you get to goals that are larger than anything you’ve ever attained before there is an instant blockage in your system and the only way to remove this blockage is by force.

By force I mean you have to literally reprogram your beliefs and automatic thoughts. Automatic thoughts are what drive you daily and when someone lacks belief in what they can achieve their automatic thought processes match that belief. Using tools like the ones mentioned earlier, such as affirmations and pictures etc are all great at doing that.

So what is really at the core of achieving something is not the goal itself but rather the belief that you can actually attain it.

Reprogramming your mind then is a process of instilling the belief that you can attain something and removing any limiting beliefs.

If on the other hand you have faith in yourself and the process, then all you need to do is make your intention clear and let it go, knowing that in due time it will arrive.

What is essential in either process is removing any need to know ‘how’ it will come. If you keep asking yourself how something is going to come to you, you are simply reinforcing the belief that the goal is out of your reach.